Five years ago Maram was an illiterate 13-year-old Syrian refugee girl living in the Shatila camp in Beirut, Lebanon. She had never been to school and her father planned to marry her off within a year. Today, Maram is still living in Shatila. But she isn’t married. In fact, she is busy applying to universities in the UK, US and UAE for an undergraduate degree in international relations in 2026.
I met Maram in January 2020. Her black hijab was drawn deep into her face. She couldn’t lift her gaze and look me in the eye. When I asked her what her dream was, she shrugged her shoulders. “To get married and have children,” she whispered, barely audible.
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Maram was among a group of 40 young teenage girls sitting on mats in a damp, dim room on a rainy day in Shatila. They had come here because they knew Kadria, a Syrian woman also living in the camp. I had met Kadria a couple of months before while I was volunteering for a local NGO in Beirut. Kadria had told me about these girls and that she wanted to do something for them in order to dissuade them from getting married at the age of 13 or 14. So we rented a small apartment as a youth centre where we would teach the girls a few hours a week reading and writing.
We called the centre Alsama Project, which means sky in Arabic. It was supposed to be a short-term project. Kadria was waiting to receive refugee status in a western country and I wanted to go back to the UK to pick up my career as a publisher and novelist.
My husband and I had taken a sabbatical from our respective jobs in the autumn of 2018, after our youngest child had graduated from school, to spend a year volunteering for an NGO in Lebanon. By late 2019, after a year in Beirut, my husband had already returned to his career, and I was about to pack my bags to leave Lebanon too.