Toddlers love Paddington Bear. My two-and-a-half-year-old Nye is a big fan – he likes many bears, in fact. Winnie-the-Pooh is almost certainly his favourite and we’ve seen the 1977 Disney film approximately 3,000 times (or is it 3,002?). We read and re-read old copies of the Berenstain Bears books when staying at my parents’ house and he can recite the story of Goldilocks and the Three Bears by heart.
There is something special about sharing stories you were told as a child with your own kids. Watching Winnie-the-Pooh with Nye I found myself remembering all the words to songs I must have committed to memory when I was about his age (“I am stout, round…”). The experience is a major parenting milestone – something to make the frequent wake-ups, early mornings and stroppy tantrums worthwhile.
It is, of course, a deeply nostalgic experience. Even the most cynical parent would struggle, surely, to sidestep that potent mixture of joy and regret, pleasure and pain. Indeed, one of the reasons people repeatedly return to the stories and characters they first met in childhood (whether they have kids of their own or not) is that they are nostalgic.
Nostalgia is a heady drug. Psychologists think that it is a near-universal emotion and science suggests that almost everyone experiences nostalgia on a weekly or even daily basis. Despite having something of a bad reputation (particularly in the world of politics) nostalgia is a fundamentally positive emotion – it feels nice, but it also provides a range of benefits.
Read more:
- An old football sticker book turns pub night into a nostalgia fest
- Ben Whishaw on the ‘quiet political message’ running through Paddington: ‘I love it’
- Britain would be nicer if people lived more like Paddington, says musical writer Jessica Swale
Studies have found that it improves mental health, increases self-esteem and meaning in life, encourages a sense of social connectedness, prompts people to seek help and support for their distress, and reduces loneliness, boredom and anxiety.











