Being in care is all I can remember – since I was taken into the care system at two years old, I’ve experienced lots of different types of placement including living with foster families, residential care and a therapeutic placement. I’ve been moved around so many times over the past two decades that I’ve lost count.
Unfortunately this thread of instability has continued into my adulthood. In the five years since I turned 18 and became a ‘care leaver’, I’ve been moved a further five times and am currently living in temporary accommodation. It’s hard to feel settled or truly make anywhere my home.
There have been times when there’s a knock at my door and I’ve been scared to answer in case it’s news that I’ll be moved again. I’ve experienced poor mental health for years and this situation can make things so much worse.
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For care leavers like me, turning 18 feels like being thrown in the deep end. We are expected to set up and look after a new home on our own. There were many practical things I just didn’t know how to do without anyone to show me.
It’s also very difficult financially. Care leavers are entitled to a grant from their council called a Setting Up Home Allowance (SUHA) and in 2023, the government changed the minimum amount for the allowance from £2,000 to £3,000.
But recent research by the charity Coram Voice found that one in 10 councils are not paying the full £3,000, and a lack of clear national guidelines has led to huge variation across the country in how the SUHA is used, who is eligible and how much is paid. I only received £2,000 and had to spend some of the allowance on the cost of moving house and essential repairs which should not have been deducted from the SUHA – it is meant to be for furniture and appliances.