When a government announces “specialist SEND support in every school and community”, it sounds like the breakthrough families have been waiting for. After years of fighting, waiting, and navigating a system that too often exhausts the very people it is meant to help, the headline alone feels like hope.
But families like the ones we work with at EnFold have learned to read beyond the headline. They know that reform lives or dies not in white papers, but in classrooms, corridors, and council offices. And they know that the gap between promise and practice has been the defining feature of the SEND system for more than a decade.
I know this not only professionally, but personally. My own daughter is in a specialist therapeutic setting because mainstream simply could not meet her needs – not through lack of care, but through lack of capacity, training, and the right environment. We had to fight for a placement that understood her, held her safely, and didn’t try to squeeze her into a system never designed for her. That fight is one thousands of families know too well.
Read more:
- What will the SEND reforms mean for families and their disabled children?
- It was a traumatic, hellish fight trying to get SEND support for my daughter
- I left teaching because I felt eaten up by guilt that I couldn’t help SEND children like my own
The government’s new proposals contain real potential. A national bank of specialists, inclusion bases in every school, and training for every teacher could transform the landscape. But only if the reforms confront the truth that families tell us every day: support arrives too late, varies wildly by postcode, and is shaped more by system strain than by children’s needs.
Early intervention must mean early, not “after crisis”. The white paper speaks of spotting needs sooner and acting quickly. Yet in many schools, staff are already stretched to breaking point. Teachers want to help, but without time, training, and capacity, “early intervention” risks becoming another aspiration that never reaches the child.









