How many years has the phrase “cost of living crisis” been in the news? A crisis shouldn’t be something that lasts for years. When it does, we need to stop talking about the cost of living, and start addressing the cost of surviving. Only that covers the reality of what many parents and families are really going through.
That is before we even take into consideration developments in the past few weeks, such as the increase in energy bills brought about by a war we’re not fighting in Iran. Families across the UK may not have to worry about the threat of danger as experienced by families facing conflict in the Middle East, or the threat of climate change experienced by families in Africa or Asia, but they are still facing deep hardship.
The media has often reported on people having to claim benefits to supplement their income yet still falling into debt because of bills. What I experience, through my career working and volunteering for charities, goes less reported than that. As a self-employed pet carer, I support families to find homes for their beloved pets when they can no longer afford to keep them. I have to reassure parents their children can continue to access the play facilities where I work, even if they can’t afford to donate.
I signpost desperate members of the community to food banks, community lunches, or crisis loans when they finally overcome the initial barriers experienced in engaging with such services. I try to keep people away from or slipping back into a life of crime, when they have lived experience that crime can pay when being a conscientious citizen does not, because life itself contains too much injustice. I support people who use alcohol, drugs or other vices to survive their daily lives because the crutches they actually need, such as mental health support, secure housing, and a regular income are simply unavailable.
These were the circumstances that drew me to supporting Changing Realities, an online project involving hundreds of parents and carers living on a low income across the UK. They work with researchers, artists and the Child Poverty Action Group (CPAG) to document people’s experiences and push for change.
The cost of survival crisis has seen parents, carers and families in perpetual crisis. They do not have the money to feed themselves or their children, or to keep a roof over their heads because they cannot afford their rent or mortgage, maintenance and other bills. It can be a struggle to keep adequate clothing on their backs.









